Commit to being a part of his life on the daily
“Out of all the fishes in the sea? The only fish I want is you.” Set in our modern time where dating is fleeting and elusive? He will be a commitment on the constant. There will be no hesitating, second-guessing, contingency plan. He will be the one you will choose to love, together you will ride the waves of life out.
You will not put him on the sideline but an integral part of your life. He will not be on a pedestal but seen for who he is as he is. He is with you because of the commitment to love and be love together.
Appreciate him, shower him with affection and attention. There will be no grey areas, mixed signals and second-guessing.
Show up, be there and convince him on the daily with showering appreciation, attention and affection. Establish a constance in his life that regardless of how busy either of you are? Be all in.
Bring him to his favourite places. Chill together in quiet coffee joints and get drunk together. Open up on your deepest fears and rope him into your goals and dreams. There will be no mixed signals, grey areas and second guessing of where he stands in your life.
Stay not just as it shines but when it gets darkest and coldest.
Ask if he’s alright and ask again. Question his silence, chase him when he walks off. Hold him even as he stews in frustration. Tear his walls apart, show him how much he means to you even as he pushes you away. Love with no restraint,choose love and the both of you regardless.
Be his equal. His best friend, right hand man, lover and wife. Be the partner you seek to have.
When things get rough, grab him a little tighter and appreciate him a little more. When the future seems bleak, pull him to you and remember the good times and work it out together. When it seems as though letting go might seem like a better option for the both of you? Keep remembering that it is a choice to love. Choose him, choose your relationship of us above me. Regardless of whether he loves a little lesser, cuts you a little more, holds out? Love anyway.
Fight for him, in good times and bad times, in sickness and in health. And trust that he will do the very same for you.
Love him in such a way that he is free. Let him fly away, let him wander and know that he? Will always come back to you.
